alternatives
Not walking alone: the actual options
It is dark by five for half the year here, and parking is rarely near the door.
Short answer
For not walking alone in Fargo–Moorhead: use a campus safety escort where one exists, ask employer security at workplaces that provide it, walk out with a coworker or classmate, or request a safety walk from an approved helper on Help Me. For an immediate threat, call 911 rather than waiting on any of these.
On campus, use campus
Where a campus offers a safety escort service, that is the first call on campus property. Those programs are staffed, familiar with the grounds, and connected to campus public safety. NDSU, MSUM, and Concordia each publish their own safety resources.
At work, use work
Hospitals, larger employers, and some retail centers provide security walk-outs at shift change. If yours does, it is more reliable than any app because it is staffed on a schedule.
Where a neighbor request fits
The gaps: an ordinary lot, an event that ran late, a bus stop, a walk nobody else is making. Realistically, evening coverage is better than overnight coverage, and no approved helper is on call. If a person is following you or something is wrong, that is 911, immediately.
Questions people actually ask
Is a safety walk request guaranteed?
No. Offers are voluntary and coverage depends on who is nearby and online. Use a staffed escort service when one exists.
What if someone is following me right now?
Call 911 and get to a lit, populated place. Do not wait on an app.
Keep going
walking
A walk with someone, on purpose
Ask an approved neighbor to walk with you in Fargo, Moorhead, or West Fargo. Public streets. Not police, not 911, not a campus escort.
walking
Walk me to the car
A walk from the library, the mall, or a ramp to your car in Fargo. Approved neighbor, public place. Not campus police, and not 911.
NDSU
NDSU Police and Safety — official campus help
NDSU University Police: 911 for emergencies, 701-231-8998 for campus police and escorts. Help Me is not campus security.
MSUM
MSUM Public Safety — official campus help
MSUM Public Safety: 218-477-2449, 24/7 escorts, on-campus jump starts, and vehicle unlocks. Call 911 in an emergency. Not Help Me.
who it’s for
For the people who leave when the lot is empty
For people who finish at 2 a.m. in Fargo, Moorhead, or West Fargo: walks to the car, dead batteries in empty lots, and honest limits on overnight help.
safety
Help Me is not 911
Help Me is for everyday, non-emergency help in Fargo–Moorhead. If you are in danger, call 911. Here is how to tell the difference.
Help Me is a community app for adults in Fargo–Moorhead. It is not a K–12 student program, not a youth chat, and not campus police.