how-to
How to become a helper
Anyone can join Help Me. Not everyone can help. Putting your name on it is the point.
This is not a side hustle listing
Help Me is not TaskRabbit. There is no paycheck from the app, no hourly rate, no customer you invoice. If you already jump strangers’ cars and walk people to the ramp, this is how the person who needs that finds you without shouting it down Broadway.
Apply from Account
The application lives inside the iPhone app. There is no web form on this site and no shortcut around staff review. It asks what you can actually help with, when you tend to be around, why you want to, what you have done before, and for identity evidence.
- Submit identity evidence from the app — a staff member reviews it.
- Pending, approved, rejected, expired, and resubmission are real states.
- An old badge grants nothing. Approval has to be current.
- This is not a criminal background check, and we do not advertise one.
After a person says yes
You choose when to go online. You can use your location so offers are genuinely nearby. Going offline, leaving the app, accepting a request, or going quiet removes you from active matching.
When an offer arrives, read it. Accept only if you can actually show up in public. Chat is private. Meet where other people can see you. Mark it done. You are a neighbor, not an on-duty employee.
What you are allowed to decline
Anything that sounds like an emergency — tell them to call 911. Anything that wants to happen in a dark driveway instead of a grocery vestibule. Anything that asks you to be a mechanic, a locksmith, a counselor, or a cop. Help with the jumper cables. Leave the rest to people whose job it is.
Questions people actually ask
Can I apply from this website?
No. Apply from Account in the iPhone app. A staff member reviews identity evidence there.
Does a .edu email skip review?
No. A campus address is not a helper badge. Everyone waits on a current staff decision.
Can I help only on my campus?
You choose categories and when you are online. Nearby matching uses recent activity and, when you allow it, location. It is not a campus-only shift board.
Keep going
helpers
Helpers show up
Apply in the app, submit identity evidence, wait on a staff decision. Current approval is required before you can see or accept requests in Fargo–Moorhead.
who it's for
For people who would have stopped anyway
If you live in Fargo, Moorhead, or West Fargo and want to help neighbors with everyday tasks, apply to become an approved Helper.
safety
How to stay safe while asking for a hand
Meet in public, keep exact location off until you consent, and use report and block. Help Me is not 911 — call official help first if you are in danger.
trust
Safety, said plainly
Approximate location, approved helpers only, private chat, public meeting places, and report/block tools. Help Me is not 911.
how-to
How to ask for help without an audience
Post a sentence, not a performance. How to request everyday, non-emergency help in Fargo–Moorhead from approved helpers nearby.
app
Get Help Me
Live on TestFlight for iPhone in Fargo–Moorhead.
Help Me is a community app for adults in Fargo–Moorhead. It is not a K–12 student program, not a youth chat, and not campus police.